Dating and marriage customs in germany
Once the groom finds them, he must pay for all they drank (Phelan 2005). During dinner the two fathers make a speech to praise the couple. Then, the bride and groom share their first dance togetherit is traditionally the waltz (Marriage 2005). The next dance is for the bride and her father and the groom and his mother, while the brides mother dances with the grooms father (German Wedding Traditions, Part 1 2004). The bride often carries salt and bread as an omen of good harvest (Phelan 2005).She also carries lengths of white ribbon with her bouquet, which is tied to the antenna of their car after the ceremony.
It is not customary to have bridesmaids, groomsmen, or flower girls at a German wedding (Walking Down the Aisle, Part 2 2004). Pierre, a native to Germany and sociology instructor at Penn State, the wedding party usually consists of a male and female witness, she said.
The civil ceremony takes place one week or one day before the church ceremony, and only the couples closest family members and friends in attendance.
The ceremony is usually followed by a dinner (German Wedding Traditions, Part 2 2004 & Marriage 2005).
Afterwards, all of the guests are invited onto the dance floor (Marriage 2005).
Germans often participate in the money dance, or veil dance; this is a tradition where guests have to pay the bride and groom to dance with them (Phelan 2005). Pierre, many families practice other traditions or play games that are unique to their family.